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When It's Time to Change....

When I comes to eating at a restaurant I am basically a creature of habit. Maybe I’m just boring or maybe it’s health issues but when I h...

Lessons from a Lawn Mower

I love watching people. Seriously, I could do it for hours. Why? Because human beings are truly fascinating, and quite frankly the bes...

When Social Media Makes You Angry

So recently I was scrolling through social media when I saw something that made me really angry. Honestly, this isn’t normal for me. I...

Autumn Memories

Even though I’m a summer loving girl who’s always a little sad to see this season end, I have to admit there are some things about this s...

Why I've Changed My Mind About Hallmark Christmas Movies

They’re ba-ck! Yes, this weekend Hallmark began running their Countdown to Christmas Movies. And even though I know it’s early and I ...

What Would You Do For a Klondike Bar?

When I was growing up, there was a commercial that said, “What would you do—ooo—ooo for a Klondike bar?” (This was back in the day when ...

Why Didn't She Like Me?

Why didn’t she like me? I just couldn’t understand. It seemed like she liked everyone else, but when we talked it was like we were on ...

Have Mercy

"Have Mercy" There’s a good chance that if you grew up in the late 80’s or early 90’s, when you hear this phrase your mind automatically ...

Hearing Truth

Have you ever been in a situation where a friend offered some honest advice that you did not want to hear? Recently, I found myself in ...

Sometimes We Need to Forget

One of the many lessons that I’m learning this summer is that sometimes you need to choose to forget. I know that it almost sounds cont...

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