The #1 choice a Christian single woman can make to revolutionize her life in 2018 is:
Stop wallowing in self-pity.
Have you ever thought about the word “wallow”?
It originally referred to the way a pig lies down and rolls around in the water or mud. It’s really a very unattractive quality---definitely not something that Daughter’s of the Most High King should be emulating.
A much better choice would be to decide to get out of the mess, shake the mud off, and move on.
Just because someone or something threw mud all over you doesn’t mean you have to stay covered in mud.
Even if you made bad decisions and chose to jump into a pool of mud on your own, you don’t have to stay there feeling sorry for yourself.
It’s a new day---a new year. You can choose to get up, do what’s necessary to clean yourself off and start over.
Pitying yourself will not change anything---choosing to end the pity party and stop wallowing is the first step on the road to a better life.