Whatever Is Lovely
"Women Don't Struggle with Pornography"
The stats tell another story.
--40% of Christian women report consuming pornography.
That’s 4 in every 10 women.
--1 in 3 visitors to adult pornography sites are women.
--17% of women consider themselves addicted to porn.
--70% of all women keep their cyber activities a secret.
This doesn’t include the women who are so covered in shame from this struggle that they didn’t answer truthfully, or the more significant number of women who don’t consider “soft porn” they watch on television and movies to be an issue.
It's one of the biggest lies in the modern church.
It’s time we stopped pretending and started offering women a lifeline.
Whatever Is Lovely is designed to provide this lifeline and a path to victory.
What Are People Saying About
Whatever is Lovely?
Pastor Nichole Schreiber
Lead Pastor, Erie First Assembly of God and At-Large Female Presbyter
“Whatever is Lovely” is a timely and much-needed resource that speaks with both grace and truth. The use of Scripture throughout is strong and consistent, always pointing the reader back to the Word of God—a crucial anchor when dealing with such a sensitive topic.
The inclusion of both group study questions and private reflection prompts shows real discernment, offering space for women to process in the way that best suits their journey.
What I appreciated most is that the book doesn’t stop at the “why,” but also equips readers with practical tools for the “how.” From implementing parental controls to removing internet access altogether, the suggestions are clear, doable, and deeply helpful for those seeking real change!
“Whatever is Lovely” is a valuable resource for women ready to walk in freedom.
Lori Cullen
Worship Pastor, Philadelphia Christian Center
4One Ministries Board Member
Now more than ever, the church needs resources that tackle tough issues from a biblical perspective.
Adessa Holden has created a powerful and practical tool for individuals and church leaders leading discipleship groups.
I am thankful that 4One Ministries chooses to confront truth boldly while addressing challenging topics with love and grace.
Pastor Jen Ferguson
Lead Pastor, New Covenant Assembly of God
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"Whatever is Lovely" is an excellent resource for any pastor! Adessa does a wonderful job of verbalizing Scriptural truths to women concerning purity, freedom from sexual addictions, ways to pursue holiness, and setting minds on things that are honorable.
It is written without causing shame or condemnation, but rather with words of encouragement - that it IS possible to transform your mind & grow in your walk with Christ!
Charisse Jenkins
Women's Director,
PennDel Ministry Network
“Whatever is Lovely” is a practical, personal, and powerful tool for a woman who battles with private sexual sins.
Corrine Thorpe
Pastor's Wife
PennDel Women Dream
Team Member
Adessa has covered a subject that is rarely talked about well. She does it, as always, with grace, sensitivity, and most importantly, lots of scripture.
Her teachings, questions, and points to ponder are well thought-out and easy to follow.
I pray that many women will sit up and recognise how easily the enemy can squirm his way into our thoughts without us even noticing.